Should New Jersey’s Department of Motor Vehicles Be Alerted to An Aging Parent’s Unsafe Driving?

elderly driverMany clients want to avoid going to the DMV about their parent(s).  He or she may be mentally sharp, but their vision is deteriorating.  There are fresh dents on their car and he/she caused an accident just a few weeks ago.  They refuse to talk about their driving skills though, and neither will forgive themselves if he/she hurts someone else.  Is there a way to anonymously report their unsafe driving to the DMV?

I have had these discussions with many clients.  I have some clients who recognize that their driving skills are declining and voluntarily give up their car keys.  They are far and few in between though.  It’s emotionally tough to give up driving and touch getting around NJ without a car.

Before contacting the DMV, try talking to your parent again.  You can get tips on starting the conversation online.  Google “aging parents giving up driving”.

If talking doesn’t work and you truly believe that he or she is putting themselves and others in danger, you have no choice but to report his unsafe driving to the Department of Motor Vehicles.  You must supply your name with the report, but your identity will not be revealed to your father.  The DMV will then investigate the situation.  To report unsafe driving, visit the DMV website:  https://www.state.nj.us/mvc/drivertopics/reportconcern.htm

Life’s ending chapters are not easy to understand.  This blog topic is never easy for any family.

Contact me personally today to discuss your New Jersey elder care matter.  I am easy to talk to, very approachable and can offer you practical, legal ways to handle your concerns.  You can reach me toll free at (855) 376-5291 or e-mail me at fniemann@hnlawfirm.com.

By Fredrick P. Niemann, Esq. of Hanlon Niemann & Wright, a Freehold Township, Monmouth County New Jersey Elder Care Attorney

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Medicaid Gifting Rules and the Annual Federal Gift Tax Exclusion Are Unrelated: Don’t Be Confused!

Medicaid giftingI’ve written numerous posts about Medicaid gifting and the misconceptions surrounding the annual gift tax exclusion rules. Generally, I’m asked the question whether New Jersey Medicaid looks at the gifts a person gives to his/her kids if the gift is valued under $15,000 each year. It’s the person’s understanding these gifts won’t have an impact on their qualifying for Medicaid benefits if they ever need a nursing home.

Beware! These folks are incorrect. They are confusing the Medicaid gifting rules and the annual exclusion for federal gift tax purposes. Let me explain.

The $15,000 referred to above is the annual federal estate tax/gift tax exclusion. That’s the amount that you may give away each year, to as many individuals as you wish, without diminishing the amount the federal government allows you to give away during your lifetime without any gift or estate tax consequences. Currently, the lifetime unified estate tax/gift tax exemption is over $11,000,000 per person.

The Medicaid eligibility issue is unrelated. When assessing eligibility for benefits, Medicaid will examine any transfers made for less than fair market value during the five (5) year look-back period. It does not matter if the gifts you have made are under or over $15,000. The transfers are totaled and a formula applied that determines how long you must wait to receive benefits (this assumes that you are eligible for benefits in all other respects). The current look-back period is five years preceding the date of application for benefits.

Contact me personally today to discuss your New Jersey special needs trust matter. I am easy to talk to, very approachable and can offer you practical, legal ways to handle your concerns. You can reach me toll free at (855) 376-5291 or e-mail me at fniemann@hnlawfirm.com.

By Fredrick P. Niemann, Esq. of Hanlon Niemann & Wright, a Freehold Township, Monmouth County New Jersey Medicaid Attorney

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Becoming Guardian for an Elderly Father Should Be Last Resort

elderly fatherQuestions about how to go about becoming a parent’s legal guardian are asked every week.  Often by siblings who are at odds with other siblings over a parent’s care.

A child believes Dad needs assisted living and the others think he belongs at home where he is comfortable. He’s very frail but has his faculties. The sister won’t listen and Dad won’t comment because he doesn’t want to play favorites. Brother and sister are constantly fighting about this.

In this emotionally charged discussion motivated by genuine parental concern, either child could pursue becoming their father’s legal guardian, but I would only reluctantly recommend it. It’s an expensive process, would be traumatizing for everyone, and probably damage your relationship with the family. It also seems unnecessary for this situation.

Instead, try using a neutral third party to mediate your disagreement. That party could be a geriatric care manager, a psychologist, family and geriatric physician.  There are certified mediators in our community. Mediation will give everyone, your father included, the chance to speak candidly and civilly. Hopefully the dilemma can be resolved without going the guardianship route.

One other thought based on my many years of experience: Don’t dismiss out-of-hand the value of assisted living for your father, even though it is not his “home.” Assisted living can provide expanded opportunities for activity and socialization. That could benefit your father more than remaining in his familiar environment. Just something to think about.

Contact me personally today to discuss your New Jersey guardianship matter.  I am easy to talk to, very approachable and can offer you practical, legal ways to handle your concerns.  You can reach me toll free at (855) 376-5291 or e-mail me at fniemann@hnlawfirm.com.

By Fredrick P. Niemann, Esq. of Hanlon Niemann & Wright, a Freehold Township, Monmouth County New Jersey Guardianship Attorney

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An Incapcaitated Mother’s Successor Trustee is Overwhelmed by Duties. So What Can They Do?

incapacitated adultHere’s an unfortunate story. Mom is incapacitated. She can no longer serve as trustee of her living trust. As successor trustee, the job has fallen to her daughter who is finding the job too difficult and time-consuming. She doesn’t want to do it anymore. Although her brother is backup trustee, the mother named him reluctantly because he is not a responsible person.  There are concerns that he is not up to the responsibility. Can the existing trustee remove the brother from the list and designate someone else to serve, maybe a trusted cousin who is a CPA?

Well, this is a tough question. Now that the daughter has taken over as trustee from her incapacitated mother, her authority is limited to what the trust says she can do. Thus, she would be able to appoint someone as her own successor only if the trust gives her that authority. But even if it does not, do not despair. As successor trustee, you do not need to do all the work of trust administration. You are free to hire competent professionals to assist you. It is totally appropriate to use the services of a lawyer or law firm, that has the capacity to facilitate the management of the trust or a professional money manager and investment advisor. You can also call upon the expertise of a Certified Public Accountant, a real estate broker or any other relevant professional.

Contact me personally today to discuss your New Jersey trust matter. I am easy to talk to, very approachable and can offer you practical, legal ways to handle your concerns. You can reach me toll free at (855) 376-5291 or e-mail me at fniemann@hnlawfirm.com.

By Fredrick P. Niemann, Esq. of Hanlon Niemann & Wright, a Freehold Township, Monmouth County New Jersey Trust Attorney

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Commercial Leases: Does it Matter if You Fail to Give Notice of Intent to Renew Your Lease?

A common provision in commercial leases is an option requiring the tenant to notify the landlord of their intention to renew the lease or purchase the property by a specific date. What happens, however, if the tenant fails to provide the landlord with timely notice?  In New Jersey, courts generally enforce the lease as written. Therefore, if the tenant fails to renew by the deadline, courts will likely strictly enforce the lease terms.

Exceptions to the General Rule:  When a Tenant’s Late Notice is Permitted

There are a few narrow exceptions to the general rule of strict enforcement of the option provision.  There are five special circumstances:  (1) the tenant would sustain substantial harm if it were forced to relocate; (2) the landlord did not change its position in reliance on the tenant’s delay; (3) the tenant’s failure to give timely notice was due to an honest mistake of fact; (4) the delay was slight; and (5) the loss to the landlord was insignificant.  The relocation prong likely requires an inquiry into whether the success of the business relies on the location.

Contact me personally today to discuss your New Jersey real estate and landlord tenant matter.  I am easy to talk to, very approachable and can offer you practical, legal ways to handle your concerns.  You can reach me toll free at (855) 376-5291 or e-mail me at fniemann@hnlawfirm.com.

By Fredrick P. Niemann, Esq., a Freehold Township, Monmouth County, New Jersey Real Estate and Landlord Tenant Attorney

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Monmouth/Middlesex Adult Protective Services Presents In-House Training Seminar to the Attorneys and Staff at Hanlon Niemann & Wright

Jessica ReyesIt was our pleasure on June 18, 2019 to welcome Ms. Jessica Reyes, Director of the Monmouth/Middlesex County Adult Protective Services, to Hanlon Niemann & Wright for an in-house training seminar.  Ms. Reyes presented a comprehensive Powerpoint presentation on the services provided by this non-profit agency on behalf of elderly persons who are the victims of abuse and/or financial exploitation.   On behalf of Hanlon Niemann & Wright, we thank Ms. Reyes for her thorough and very informative presentation.  We will be able to benefit all of our clients when there are issues involving the topic of elder abuse and financial exploitation being present.

Contact me personally today to discuss your New Jersey elder abuse and/or financial exploitation matter.  I am easy to talk to, very approachable and can offer you practical, legal ways to handle your concerns.  You can reach me toll free at (855) 376-5291 or e-mail me at fniemann@hnlawfirm.com.

Jessica H. Reyes, LSW can be reached at 732-531-9191 or by email jreyes@fcsmonmouth.org
Family Children’s Services
191 Bath Avenue
Long Branch, NJ 07740

By Fredrick P. Niemann, Esq. of Hanlon Niemann a Freehold, New Jersey Elder Abuse and/or Financial Exploitation Attorney

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Bank Accounts Must Go Through Probate If There Is No Beneficiary Designated

Many banks have strict policies regarding accounts that are subject to probate. They demand that the surrogate court provide “letters testamentary” before they’ll release a deceased person’s account to the executor/administrator. Many unknowing persons think that a death certificate and a Will alone be enough to gain access to the decedent’s account, especially if the Will says he or she receives all his/her assets. The bank will always say that is not sufficient.

If a person does not name a beneficiary to an account making it payable to a person on death, then it must go through probate. If the parent had designated a beneficiary, it would be as simple as presenting the bank with a death certificate for the beneficiary to get the money released. Any asset that passes under a Will must go through the probate court. Letters testamentary are issued by the court if there is formal probate administration appointing a personal representative. The personal representative receives the funds and then distributes them to the beneficiaries.

If the estate is small enough in lieu of formal probate, it may be eligible for a simpler proceeding called a summary administration. Read more about this probate option in my blog section of this site.

Contact me personally today to discuss your New Jersey probate matter. I am easy to talk to, very approachable and can offer you practical, legal ways to handle your concerns. You can reach me toll free at (855) 376-5291 or e-mail me at fniemann@hnlawfirm.com

By Fredrick P. Niemann, Esq. of Hanlon Niemann & Wright, a Freehold Township, Monmouth County New Jersey Probate Attorney

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A DNR (Do Not Resuscitate) Order is Legal in New Jersey Without a Terminal Illness

do not resuscitate order | DNRWe’ve all heard about a “Do Not Resuscitate Order” (DNR) but probably don’t know (precisely) what it means, or how it applies to you in real life.

A DNR order alerts emergency personnel that you do not wish to receive Cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR) in the event of a medical emergency. It is a medical order that must be signed by a doctor.

DNR orders are used primarily by people who are already critically ill and feel strongly that they do not want life-prolonging treatment when close to death. If you do not have a DNR order, emergency medical personnel must use all available measures, no matter how invasive, to save your life.

Awhile back a client wanted to create a DNR. He was a healthy active man of 85. However, he had a heart attack. He didn’t want to be revived but to end up housed in an institution or hospital for a long time. His family was opposed because he was gambling with his life, and they also claimed that he couldn’t get a DNR because he wasn’t terminally ill.  Who was right?

No, the family is incorrect; you can establish a valid DNRO without a terminal illness. The document says that in case of respiratory or cardiac failure, CPR should be withheld. A persons desire to avoid being left to linger or suffer is understandable, but it is very important that everyone understand that a DNRO can also prevent you from receiving treatment that might restore you to full capacity.

To be a legal document both you and your doctor must sign the DNRO. Your doctor should have a copy. You should keep a copy on your person. Without seeing it, EMTs are duty-bound to administer CPR.

I can understand the family’s opposition to their desires. After all, they want their father around as long as possible. Obviously, it is very personal; choice and his to make. But I would advise all concerned to talk about it a great deal more, so that everyone can come away with peace of mind.

To discuss your NJ Estate Planning matter, please contact Fredrick P. Niemann, Esq. toll-free at (855) 376-5291 or email him at fniemann@hnlawfirm.com.  Please ask us about our video conferencing consultations if you are unable to come to our office.

By Fredrick P. Niemann, Esq. of Hanlon Niemann & Wright, a Freehold Township, Monmouth County, NJ Estate Planning Attorney

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New Jersey Adopts a New Law Which Will Allow You to Die With Dignity and on Your Terms

The State Legislature recently adopted a law entitled  “Aid and Dying for the Terminally Ill Act” which will allow a qualified terminally ill patient to self-administer medication to end his/her life in a humane and dignified manner.

The new law provides that New Jersey’s long standing commitment to individual dignity, informed consent and the fundamental right of a competent adult to make healthcare decisions about whether to have life prolonged through medical or surgical procedures withdrawn and withheld is to be honored and affirmed.  As a result, a qualified terminally ill patient under appropriate safeguards and limitations can obtain medication that the patient may choose to self-administer in order to bring about the patient’s humane and dignified death.

As I indicated in the opening paragraph, there are a number of conditions that are attached to this new law which appear to be very reasonable in reading though I do disagree with some of the provisions as being a bit onerous and bureaucratic.   Still the law serves a very valuable purpose.  Having been with thousands of families over many years, I believe this law is appropriate and a responsible recognition of America’s aging population and the substantial burdens that many terminally ill persons face in the dying process.

While there are a number of individuals and organizations that believe that assistance in ending life is contrary to religious convictions, it is a suitable subject for discussion by all concerned.

I have copies of this Legislation available for anyone that may be interested.   Please contact me by email at fniemann@hnlawfirm.com and it will be our pleasure to send you a copy.

By Fredrick P. Niemann, Esq. of Hanlon Niemann & Wright, a Freehold Township, Monmouth County, NJ Elder Law Attorney

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After finding Fred Niemann on the internet and watching many of his videos, I knew his firm was knowledgeable in more than just Wills and estate planning.  Once I had the chance to meet with Fred Niemann, he was friendly and interested in my needs.  After talking with many local firms, I was very glad I had chosen the firm of Hanlon Niemann & Wright.
– Walter Sobieski

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